SHAMAIL- Ali Yardım, PhD (chapter 7)

THE EATING AND DRINKING STYLES OF THE HOLY PROPHET

“I eat like an ordinary people, and I sit like an ordinary man”

It must be stated that the sources do not mention how the Prophet (pbuh) sat at a table; rather they point out how he did not sit. It has been stated that he would generally sit kneeling. The sources from the first period usually cite a single line that is a hadith:

“As for Me, I never settle in well to eat”

The Prophet, who would ensure that he was in a purified state when eating the food provided by Allah, always thanked Allah for His blessings. The Prophet and the people who followed him were always worried about what their meal would lead to; they were grateful to Allah and requested that He cause their meal to lead to good things.

The Prophet always tried to prevent practices that caused waste and to make use of all of Allah’s blessings, even a single grain of rice.

Bread
According to the available documents Prophet Muhammad always ate bread made from barley flour. He would not eat bread made from refined flour, from which the bran had been removed. At that time in the Hejaz wheat was imported and very expensive. The Prophet would not eat food made from wheat flour which was not affordable for the majority of people. He disapproved of luxury and maintained the status of role model in the matter of food, as with everything else. He preferred barley bread not only because it was economic, but also as it was filling and nutritional.

During meals, the Prophet would sit at a low table made of leather or canvas. He would not use a table or a tray with legs.

He would not bring appetizers like salads, pickles or spices to the table. The Prophet would never overeat.
The texts from the first period speak of the Prophet eating two meals a day. Breakfast was called ghada, and dinner was calledasha. Prophet Muhammad would eat two meals a day at the most. One of these meals always consisted of light foods. These light foods included dates.

The Prophet advised that dinner should be eaten and ordered: “Do not neglect dinner but dine, even with a handful of dates; neglecting dinner ages people and harms the body.”

Prophet Muhammad emphasized the important effect of hunger on humans in the following words: “O Allah! I take shelter in you against hunger; hunger is a very bad condition which weakens people” However, he also underlined the hazards of imbalanced and excessive eating:

“No person can fill a dish that is worse than his stomach. Basically humans need only a few bites to withstand hunger. If they need to eat more, they must fill one third of their stomachs with food, one third with drink and they should leave the remaining part empty for breath!”

Aisha says: “The family members of the Prophet never ate two meals in quick succession and never ate their fill of barley bread”

Ibn Abbas says: “Sometimes the Holy Prophet would go to sleep without having eaten anything for several nights consecutively; he and his family would not be able to find anything to eat for dinner and they would eat barley bread”.

For the Prophet the most important feature of a meal was whether it was halal (permitted), clean and nutritional. Prophet Muhammad did not prefer one food over another and he did not find fault with any food. Abu Hurairah said: “The Holy Prophet would never prefer one food over another. He would eat what was offered if he was hungry, and would not eat if he was not.”

The Prophet did not indulge in any food and he had no craving for any food. “If someone eats whatever they crave, this is wasteful.”

Prophet Muhammad would thank the host in particular for the meals served and he would say that he had been satisfied by the food served to him.

Some examples of the food that the Prophet ate are as follows: leg of mutton, mutton chops, kebab, chicken, bustard, meat soup, zucchini, olive oil, curd cheese, melon, halva, honey, dates, Swiss chard and fish. This list, to which other foods can be added, also gives us an idea about the cuisine of the Age of Happiness. Simplicity dominated the food, and simplicity is an indication of maturity.

Washing Hands before the Meal
The Prophet wanted people not to be content with ordinary cleanliness, but to demonstrate their cleanliness in every field. He also wanted people to be as clean as possible for meals. In the same way that a Muslim takes ablution before prayer, they should wash their hands before eating. The practice of washing one’s hands before the meal was not performed in other religions at the time; it was first introduced by Prophet Muhammad.

“If something happens to one who has gone to bed without washing their hands after dinner, may he seek fault in himself, not in someone else!.”

Salman-i Farisi said that Prophet Muhammad ordered: “The blessings of food lie in washing hands before and after eating.”

Prayers said by Prophet Muhammad before and after Meals
The Prophet would always utter a basmala (blessing) before performing every action, including eating. If the basmala is forgotten at the beginning, it is uttered as soon as one remembers.

Prophet Muhammad would always pray after the meals. His shortest prayer was the one that consisted of the phrase Alhamdulillah(Thanks be to Allah). He stated that the most virtuous form of worship was to utter La ilaha illallah (There is no God but Allah) and that the finest prayer was Alhamdulillah. There is no one single method for such prayers. Everybody can say prayers from their hearts, using long or short phrases.

In the period of Prophet Muhammad meals were eaten on a low table and out of a large common plate. For this reason the Prophet desired that everybody should eat from in front of them. Eating together and getting up from the table together are manners that he advises. Prophet Muhammad said: “After the table has been set, may no one leave the table before it is cleared. Even if they are full, so as not to embarrass the people around the table, may no one take their hands off the table. May they not exhibit an attitude indicating that they are full. When a person leaves the table early, he embarrasses his friend; this also leads his friend to take his hands off the table. He might not yet be full!”

In accordance with this, a person who is invited to the table and offered food should not refuse the offer if they are hungry and should not use unbelievable phrases such as, “I am full…I have just eaten”. The Prophet stated that: “Food that is enough for one person is sufficient for two. Food that is enough for two people is sufficient for four people and the food for four people is sufficient to feed eight people.” Thus, we can understand the importance of sharing what we have, whether it is a little or a lot, with other people.

Umar bin Abi Salama gives the following account: “I went to the house of the Holy Prophet. He was sitting at the table. When he saw me, He said: “My child, come to the table, utter basmala, start eating with your right hand and take the food from in front of you”.

Abu Said al-Hudri tells us: “When the Holy Prophet would finish his meal and get ready to leave the table he would utter the following prayer: “al-Hamdu lillalillazi at’amena va sakana va ja’alana min’al-müslimin” which means “May Allah, Who feeds us and makes us a society of Muslims, be praised.”

Abu Umama tells us: “When the table was about to be cleared, Prophet Muhammad would say the following prayer: “al-Hamdu lillahi hamdan kasiran tayyeban mubarakan fihi khayra muvadda’in vala mustaghnan ‘anhu Rabbana” which means “Allah, I Praise You with eternal gratitude, ceaseless and void of pretense; not with the kind turned down by You.”

Fruit Eaten by the Prophet
We learn that Prophet Muhammad loved eating melon, watermelon and cucumbers. Grapes, quince, and the kabas fruit of themiswak tree were among the other fruit preferred by the Prophet.

The Prophet showed great care in selecting food that would not have a negative effect on his health. He ate fruit during and after the meals, not merely as a fruit, rather but to stabilize the temperature of his body.

Abu Hurairah tells us: “When the companions of the Holy Prophet obtained the first fruit, they would immediately bring it to the Holy Prophet. He would take that first fruit into his sacred hands and say the following prayer: “O Allah! Grant fertility to our fruit, our city and our measures called sa and mudd. O Allah! Holy Abraham is your worshipper, friend and prophet. I too am your worshipper and prophet. He prayed to you for Mecca. I pray to You to the extent of His prayer, and even twice the measure of that prayer for Medina!” He would then call the youngest child and give them that first fruit.

The Prophet’s Drinks

The drinks that were enjoyed in the Age of Happiness were things like honey sherbet (‘asal), date or grape juice and milk. During wedding feasts, guests would be treated to date sherbet. Milk had a special place among the drinks of Prophet Muhammad. He would sometimes add cold water to the milk before drinking it. Particularly in hot weather, the Prophet would cool off the milk when it was available by adding some cold water. Aisha reported; “Fresh water would be brought from the spring Buyut al-Suqya, which was at a distance of two days.”

The Prophet would also show great care that his drinking water was fresh, and that it had “rested and been kept for a night”. In related sources, there are accounts about “water which has rested in a jug”.

The Prophet would drink water slowly, resting between sips. He would take a breath twice three breaths. He said that “Drinking water in stages eases digestion, quenches the thirst and is healthier.” stressing the importance of drinking in this manner for our health.

Ibn Abbas states the following: “Our Holy Prophet banned us from putting the ends of the water skins or jugs to our mouth and finishing them in one gulp. After the warning of our Prophet, a man drank from the jug in one gulp and what should emerge from the jug but a snake!”

The Sacred Cup
There were about eleven people who volunteered to serve the Prophet. The most prominent of these were the companions Anas bin Malik and Abdullah bin Mas’ud. Abdullah bin Mas’ud would carry the Prophet’s shoes, miswaks and cushions and keep them ready for use. When the Prophet stood, Abdullah bin Mas’ud would bring the Prophet’s shoes and put them on his feet. When the Prophet sat, he would take off his shoes and hold them in his hands.

Anas bin Malik was the water-bearer for the Prophet. He would carry the Prophet’s water cup carefully, clean it and prepare the Prophet’s drinks.

Prophet Muhammad would use one cup for all drinks, including water. This cup was made of a wood called nudar. This cup once cracked along the side and was mended with a silver ring, and was used again. The width of this cup was greater than its height. It had an iron ring by which it could be hung on the wall. Once Anas tried to replace this iron ring with a silver or golden ring, but his step-father Abu Talha (34/654) said: “Don’t ever do that! Don’t change anything that was made by the Holy Prophet!” After that, Anas did not replace this part and preserved the cup as it was.

Some of the personal belongings of the Prophet were preserved by his Companions and passed on from one generation to the next.

The Companions of Prophet Muhammad had profound respect for the objects that the Prophet used, and the places where he slept, prayed and rested. The objects were preserved by them out of respect, affection, homage and for blessings. Monuments were built in the places where the Prophet had slept, prayed or rested.

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Ayetü’l-Kürsî: “Allah ki, Ondan başka ilâh yoktur; dâima diri, (yarattıklarını) koruyup yöneten ve hayatlarını devam ettirendir. Ona ne uyuklama arız olur, ne de uyku. Göklerde ne varsa, yerde ne varsa hepsi Onundur. İzni olmadan kim Onun katında şefaatte bulunabilir? Önlerinde ne varsa, arkalarında ne varsa, hepsini bilmektedir. Onun ilminden, kendisinin dilediği miktarın dışında bir şey kavrayamazlar. Onun kürsüsü, gökleri ve yeri kaplamıştır. (Gökleri ve yeri) koruyup gözetmek, Ona ağır gelmez. O yücedir, azamet sahibidir.” Yâsîn, Secde, Mülk ve Kâfirun sûreleri. Sonra ellerini birleştirerek İhlâs, Felak ve Nâs sûrelerini okur. Avuçlarına üfler, başından ve yüzünden başlamak suretiyle vücudunun ulaşabildiği yerlerine kadar mesh eder.(Bu son kısmı üç kere tekrarlar.)

İnsanların çoğu kâfirdir. //Nahl 83.
Çoğu fasıktır. //Maide 49.
Çoğu müşriktir. //Rum 42.
Çoğu inkârcıdır. //İsra 89.…
Çoğu gâfildir. //Yunus 92.… …
Çoğu şükretmez. //Bakara 243.
Çoğu zanna uyar. //Yunus 36.
Çoğu nankördür. //Furkan 50
Çoğu yalancıdır. //Şuara 223.
Çoğu iman etmez. //Bakara 100.
Çoğu Allah’a ortak koşar. //Yusuf 106
Çoğu haktan hoşlanmaz. //Zuhruf 78 
Çoğu Kur’andan yüz çevirdi. //Fussilet 4.
Çoğu akıl etmez, kafası çalışmaz. //Maide 103.
Çoğu Ölüleri Allah’ın dirilteceğini bilmez. //Nahl 38.
Çoğu Kıyametin geleceğine inanmaz. //Mümin 59.
Çoğu Allah’ın mucize yaratabileceğini bilmez. //Enam 37.
Çoğu Rızkı Allah’ın verdiğini bilmez. //Sebe 36.
Çoğu Doğru olan dinin Müslümanlık olduğunu bilmez. //Rum 30.

İnsanlar, imtihandan geçirilmeden, sadece “İman ettik”demeleriyle bırakılıvereceklerini mi sandılar?

“Ankebut 2”

Sonsuz olan Cennet, dünyadaki birkaç günlük amelin değil,Hâlis niyetlerin karşılığıdır. .

Hasan Basri Hz.

SHAMAIL- Ali Yardım, PhD (chapter 6)

Speaking Style

One of the most distinctive features of Prophet Muhammad was the beauty and precision of his speech. Prophet Muhammad said: “I was sent equipped with the ability to speak concisely (javami’ul-kalim)”. The environment in which the Prophet grew up had an important effect on his ability to speak fluently.

The Prophet would speak slowly, clearly and in a way that everyone could understand. He would speak so slowly that the audience could count the words one by one if they wanted to. He would repeat important words three times while speaking if necessary.

Prophet Muhammad served as a preacher, mufti, judge, teacher, trainer, head of family, diplomat, commander, conqueror, and a community member who had many friends; he would talk to people from all backgrounds, be they friend or enemy, Muslim or non-Muslim, rich or poor, adult or child, man or woman.

The Prophet always treated his companions like a caring teacher and a compassionate father when speaking to them. He would address them in a fine rhetoric when he wanted to teach them some rules of etiquette. He would say the things that needed to be said in a humorous way sometimes and sometimes in a pleasing way; he also spoke with joy, hope and encouragement. He would use irony and examples and would put forward ideas that were thought-provoking.

The Prophet’s tone and style in his public speeches were very different from his everyday mode of speech. The sources use terms derived from the word khutba (sermon) to define the Prophet’s public speeches. No other speech or sermon is as long as the Farewell Khutba, the last public speech the Prophet made.

When addressing the public, the Prophet’s eyes would become blood-shot, his tone would rise, and he would become excite. Prophet Muhammad also had a stick, called a mihsara (walking stick, truncheon, or club) that he used to lean on when making speeches or to point at things.

Prophet Muhammad did not tolerate unnecessary excess or indecent behavior that would bring shame on Islam, or attitudes that would harm the basic principles. If he were to encounter such behavior the Prophet would become sad and angry, and try to prevent those who had committed the act with gentle words of advice.

The Prophet had an unchanging attitude; he never embraced a rude, hard, insulting, affronting or offensive speaking style.

Facial Expressions

As pointed out in the sources, Prophet Muhammad was a happy and cheerful person by nature. His face always had a smile on it. He never let his sorrows show and did not behave in ways that would depress others, even in times of unhappiness. He would smile, especially when he came across people that he liked, in such a way that his face shone like the moon.

Apart from these manners, the Prophet had a particular manner of laughing. The hadith sources give many examples of how he laughed and what he laughed about. In particular, Aisha mentioned the Prophet’s manner of laughing in the following words:

“I never saw the Holy Prophet laugh in such a way that the back of his mouth was seen or that he lost awareness of what was happening. His laughter was rather a modest smile.” Most of his Companions used the following statement when they spoke of how he smiled : “… He laughed so that his molars were visible!” By laughing like this, the teeth are visible but one cannot hear a sound. This is how the Prophet laughed.

His Jokes
Anas bin Malik says: “The Prophet joked with children much more than anyone else.” “The Holy Prophet joked with his wives much more than anyone else”

The Prophet enjoyed sharing jokes with children, with his wives, with poor people, and those that needed his affection. When he said: “Don’t quarrel with your friends; don’t joke with them; always hold your promises!” the people around him said: “But Holy Prophet, you also joke!” “Yes, I also joke; but I only tell the truth (even when joking)”.

40 Hadith/33

.“O People! Do your tasks with energy. Because when you become weary of [prayers and worshipping] Allah becomes weary of recording blessings. The most pleasant effort to Allah is that which is little, but constant.”

“Bukhari, Al-Iman (Faith); 16”

40 Hadis/14

 “İnsanlara teşekkür etmesini bilemeyen Allah’a da şükredemez.”

Ebû Davud, Edeb, 11”

BİR DAHA BÖYLE YAPMA

Hz. Muhammed (asv) mescide girdiğinde, nezaket kurallarından habersiz yeni Müslüman olmuş bir göçebe Arabın, burnunu sildiği paçavrayı yere attığını görür. Pisliği yerden kendi eliyle alarak temizler, sahibine dönerek yumuşak bir sesle konuşur:

“Bir daha böyle yapma.”

DO NOT DO IT AGAIN

When Hazrat Muhammad (pbuh) entered the mosque, he saw a newly converted Bedouin Muslim blow his nose and threw the napkin on the ground. He cleaned the ground with his hands and said to the man softly,

“Do not do it again.”

ÜÇ KERE EFENDİM

Birisi üç kez “Ey Allah’ın Elçisi” diye seslenir.

Hz. Muhammed (asv) üçünde de çağırana dönerek cevap verir:

“Efendim!”

SHAMAIL- Ali Yardım, PhD (chapter 5)

THE BODY LANGUAGE AND STYLE OF THE PROPHET

How He Walked

According to information available in the sources Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) did not shuffle his feet, but raised them firmly when taking a step. While walking he did not sway either to the right or to the left, but would walk leaning slightly forward when going up an incline. He would never walk completely upright nor would he walk rapidly. However, he could cover long distances in a short period of time, which was by the grace of Allah.

How He Sat
The documents available to us concerned with how the Prophet sat are scattered among the hadith texts and consist of the following information:

Sitting in the kurfasa style: This is a position in which a person sits on a seat, pulls his knees up to his stomach, wrapping the arms around them and joining the hands in front. In the sources there are documents reporting that Prophet Muhammad occasionally sat in such a position.
Sitting in an ihtibah position: Ihtibah is same as the position above, except that in the former position the knees are held with the hands, whereas in this style the knees are held with a belt or some such similar object.
Sitting cross-legged: According to an account recorded by Abu Dawud, “After the Holy Prophet performed his morning prayer he would sit cross-legged until dawn.”
Squatting: The Prophet used this position, known as ihtifâz or ik’â, mostly while eating.
Leaning back and crossing the legs: In the sources there are some accounts of Prophet Muhammad leaning back, crossing his legs and resting in the masjid.
Sitting with feet dangling: Among the hadith texts, there are some accounts in which Prophet Muhammad sits with some companions on the side of a well, with his feet dangling.
Kneeling: In sources that report the sitting styles of the Prophet there are accounts of him sitting in a kneeling position. However, in the biographies, which give accounts of the life of the Companions and in the sabab-i wurud sections of hadith texts, it is not possible to find such a position.
The reason for this lack of information about kneeling was that it was the most usual sitting style of Prophet Muhammad. For that reason, it would not be expected for one of his Companions to say, “I saw the Holy Prophet kneeling”, as this would just be a repetition of what is known and would be of no interest. The Prophet’s other sitting styles were sitting styles that he was seen to perform rarely. The Prophet sat in all the manners described above at various stages of his life. In so doing, he did not limit the sitting styles of other Muslims who wanted to resemble him in every way.

Objects upon Which He Leant
Prophet Muhammad said: “Three things will not be rejected (by me): pillows, fine scent and milk!”

Prophet Muhammad would put a cushion under his arm and lean on it in conversational gatherings and when he sat for a long time.

We have also information about the fact that the Prophet would sit on an object called serir, made of date leaves.

There are also documents which state that the Prophet would sit on a bench that had iron or wooden legs.

The Prophet would not refuse to sit on any object that was offered to him, provided that it was not luxurious for society at that time. As a matter of fact, Prophet Muhammad would sometimes sit on a carpet or divan covered with a rug in places he was visiting, or would refuse to sit on the divan offered and sit on the wooden floor or bare soil instead.

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